Child Support Mother Playing Games
I can use some help!! We are in Ohio and my husband's ex girlfriend has one child with him. The mother said she was not getting enough money (basically she's too lazy to work, had her child less then 2 days a week and is too busy going out to party or shop) she even had a perfectly healthy child declared autistic to try for ssi (we were not allowed to have him tested ourselves as she wouldn't let us have a copy of the medical card.)
The whole situation is like this- when the mother put in for a new cs order she lied and said she hasn't worked in 4 years when she actually owned her own business, building and all. It did close down a few months prior but she never disclosed it, even when asked about previous income! My husband had always been honest... Now in the child support hearing she admitted she ran a business and drives 11k car with no income and had a mental breakdown when she was caught.
I have 2 children my husband helps take care of and we share two children, cs said the children we have would be accounted for and deducted for in the order, which they never did!!! So my children do not count and basically do not exist.
Like I stated previously the mother rarely has the child, good portions of the time the mother doesn't even have the child living with her, usually the child is with the father and fathers parents, otherwise with the mothers -mother or father- the child has spent weeks living with grandmother because the mother was "unable to care" also due to mental hospital stays!
We cannot afford an attorney to get custody at this time, since the mothers a nut and bouncing the child around and we would like to get the support figured out so we can afford to get custody.
Since the child us here at least 60% of the time, and the mom begs for money constantly but no checks only cash...and she receives 400 a month and we pay for health insurance plus school and everyday things since he is Always here plus she receives gov assistance. She actually told cs she wants me to get a job (with 4 kids 2 of which are babies) so I can pay child support!!!
Basically cs didn't do their job and even with all the evidence will do nothing, they said 3 years before they re-do the support order and my children are barely getting by now since they doubled the support for the one child plus medical etc totals around $600 a month. Can anything be done besides court to fix their mistake?
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