Divorce Games: Father is trying to take daughter away from mother?

by PP
(Texas)

My daughter is in california. I am in the military, I had to be gone for a month so i took my daughter to my mother's in california.

My husband left for pennsylvania around the same time i took my daughter to ca. We have been having problems for a while.

He has been out of the army for almost a year now, and during that time, he stayed at home while i dropped and picked up my daughter from daycare. I paid for daycare.

I havent had the chance to pick up my daughter from california becuase of some financial issues. Now my husband wants to go pick her up, but i am not comfortable with him doing that. I want to pick her up.

He was supposed to buy me a ticket to go see see her because I agreed to let him take her for a month. But he has been angry with me becuase i dont want to be with him anymore.

He told me he doesn't want to buy me a ticket anymore and will just pick her up in california on his own. i dont think thats right for him to do.
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As unfotunately so often happens; another tug of war between parents with the child as a prize. What does this teach a child?